During the 2021 NBA finals, the following quote from the coach of the Phoenix Suns, Monty Williams, circulated social media.  “Everything you want is on the other side of hard.”  These words ring in my ears every time I recall Raelyn’s birth story. Her sweet and precious arrival was definitely on the other end of hard and labor was definitely the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life.  My Birth Plan While many moms encouraged me to stay flexible, I still created a birth plan with a base line of wants in case things went exactly how I’d hoped.…